Beauty and the Beast

25.11.09


So each is inevitably disappointed...says Einsten.

From experience, I'm not suitable to be the love guru or give any advise or even question anything about relationships. But what I do know is, experience is the best teacher. If you still haven't learn from your (or their) mistakes, then you've learn nothing at all. You must've been a dumdum (read: dumb). Falling in love is not just about loving each other tenderly, promising that this is forever; because you don't know the meaning of forever and you're not God. So, you don't know who you're destined to be with. Therefore, stop bullshitting your partners. Stop making promises about the future because you don't know what's gonna happen next. Let say karma's a bitch and you'll get hit by a truck tomorrow, so where's your forever now? *OMG TOUCH WOOD!*


Everyone wants to have a partner in their life but how ready are you to be commited? The long hours of crying and screaming and shouting and cursing. Are you ready for all that? Some of you have been blinded by the good side of love that you oversee this negative part. Of course, there will always be arguments in relationships. If you don't argue, then something must've been wrong with you and your partner. Ah, I've lost my point. Dammit. Oh, yea. My point is...if you want this just for fun and laughter or just to show off to others, then might as well quit it right now. What goes around, comes back around. If you play someone's heart today, you'll be played in the future. Happy endings are just for fairytales. If you've got your happy ending now, well looks like you've played your cards right.


Girls/ladies are known to be sensitive and emotional. A man is what we need in our life, not a boy. Where have all the true gentlemen run off to? Why does men like to curse and swear barbarically when they're in an argument? Ok, fine maybe not most of you.


Boys/Men...well another God's creation. And us girls still know nothing about you and your hidden agenda :(

p/s: from the point of view of a pessimist, because what we need is someone to say 'what if' and not 'you'll be fine, trust me'..cuz that's just bs :P

7 comments:

kenwooi said...

well.. i believe that there are really committed couple in the world.. it's just that they are shadowed by those uncommitted couples, coz people tend to talk more on the bad stuffs.. =)

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░♥si lampu neon♥░ said...

ARGHHHH aku syg ko syg ko sebab post ni ;)

but i think u should focus more about why women want their partner to change, and why men dont want girls to change at all..

it is clear that woman can accept the goods and bads part of their partner and putting all hope that the guy will change after times..

but most guy has lost that, whats to changed for if they already married ? Men are the king in the family, not women.

the result is, woman has to suffer.

Aezlika said...

kenwooi: haha yeah i like to think negatively cuz if we always talk about the good things...den it's like we're lying to ourself that there's no bad and evil in this world..muahaha..this world needs ME! haha someone to say...what if :P

neo: i lebiu 2 bebeh wahaha..ryte ma'am shall try to think of why we want them to change :)

HenRy LeE ® said...

haha.. u did point out some of the important things in BGR (boy-girl relationship)...

Sometimes humans are very unpredictable, majority men are have a strong desire of being ego and women are too sensitive but in real life, somehow they can be vice versa...

What I think is most important is toleration with each other, to give and take. Never expect to win any game in a relationship because love is sacrificing one's person desire, need and dignity for his/her partner's sake...

If one day u found someone u really loved, try not to change him/her, ask urself why? Change urself 1st unless the partner has bad habits or lifestyle that need to be changed for goodness in a relationship :)

Aezlika said...

yup2..gotta accept who we are..one i was told to accept the person for who he is..but he asked me to change..i mean..not that im bad or anything..didnt do anything wrong..sounds like such a hypocrite lol

HenRy LeE ® said...

haha... :p

Eric Lee said...

haha may be u should read this post of mine..
http://leehuangshi.blogspot.com/2009/10/what-are-guys-thinking-part-1.html

but seriously, a guy that doesn't want u to change, most probably he's just viewing things in a more plastic perspective rather than heart to heart like girls did..

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